Facing a debilitating illness or surgery, or having a family member doing the same, can be frightening and a bit like you're leaping into an unknown abyss. I recently read Back to Life: A Journey of Transformation Through Back Surgery and found it to be an interesting and informative read. One month ago, my mother had heart surgery for the second time. The first time was 17 years ago for a triple bypass after two heart attacks. She was 45. This time she needed a valve replacement and they performed another bypass during the nearly 10 hour surgery. Back to Life by Pamela Douglas chronicles her experience with major spine surgery through first-person and family journal entries in categories of before, during and after surgery. I found the similarities between Pam's experiences, thought and feelings to be remarkably like what my mother just went through with major heart surgery. To me, what is most extraordinary is the way t...